happiness is a choice right? its a decision...there's always 2 faces to everything and it depends on us which face we want to concentrate our gaze into..how we wish to perceive things. we can always choose to look at the "brighter side of things", as how they put it, but sometimes we also have to look at the dark side..to maintain balance..to maintain logic. remember the symbol? yinyang? we would never know the good if we havent known the bad, positive wouldnt exist if there is no negative, we wont knoe light if there is no darkness. These two are intertwined, one has to exist for the other to survive and it depends on us to choose. But like what ive read somewhere on the internet (ive been reading and straining my eyes a lot these days..lol) we humans are inclined to focus on the negative...Negativity Bias is what they call it. thats the reason why we put too much thought on the nega...thats why we always anticipatethe worst and dwell on the pessimism. That iwe s why even the most jolly person experiences what we call an "emo phase". a time when we greatly focus to not being happy, moping around and succumbing to the thimgs that would obviously upset us...things we dont have control over. its funny actually if you think about it, its almost like, we, humans invent our own problems..our own worries...our own doom. i for one, knows that everything shall come to pass,and i mean everything, forver is just a state...a phase...and forever has an end. now those hopeless romantic dont need to go gaga and build a picket line outside my house for saying it. I am a hopeless romantic too, i enjoy gazing at the stars...the idea of a first kiss..marriage...honeymoon...spooning...cuddling...so im not saying that there is no forever in a relationship. I do believe ther is forever, in essence, the feelings that we have doesnt go away..its not an apparition or a bubble that when bursted cease to exist. Its still there and will always be there ...maybe just in a nother form. but why ami taling about relationships? its not the amain thought of my blog...lol actually i dont know the main thought of this blog..i just picked it up frm my drafts gfolder and is currently attempting to continue the flow. i miss writing you know...i miss expressing my thoughts freely...withuot restrictions..without bias. i want to be able to say things that i gfeel...i think...i believe without inhibitions. without thinking that here maybe someone that would be hurt by what i would say.